I drink lots and lots of tea. I’ve never had any reaction to caffeine, but I still don’t like to drink tea right before I sleep. I do sometimes crave a cup late at night so I drink herbal. I vary between my nightly picks but lately, I’ve been drinking a DIY sleep time herbal tea to promote sleep.
I don’t like chamomile (which would be the obvious choice) because I think I was given too much being sick as a child, so I have a really bad association. I searched for a while for a ready made night time herbal tea blend, but everything had chamomile.
Blend it Yourself
I finally gave up and decided to do my own blend. It took a minimal effort to read and learn about what herbs, roots or flowers helped with relaxation or as a sleep aid, and a bit of trial and error with blending. After a few tests, I decided to add some extra ingredients to help improve its flavor, since during my first trials my husband said it tasted like ‘hot dirty water’, yikes! I’m not going to say this is the most flavorful tea, but it’s meant for a purpose. This sleep time herbal tea has lemony notes and works well unsweetened.

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The herbs I considered to use were some popular ones that have some relaxing effect to reduce physical and mental tension. (NOTE: Please ask your doctor if you are pregnant, nursing or taking any medications before trying herbal products. Since many herbs and supplements have the potential to interact with both prescription and over-the-counter medications, always consult your healthcare provider before adding a herbal tea to your nightly routine)
Sleep Time Herbal Tea Recipe
Valerian – Promotes healthy relaxation and sleep (This statement has not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration). It is widely used in teas, extracts and as capsules to treat insomnia. Smell and taste can be considered unpleasant to some (but don’t worry, it is well blended with other herbs and you won’t feel its taste!). If you want to use it on its own, it’s recommended to use about 2 gms and steep for 10 minutes in boiled water. Studies have shown that it works more effectively after 2 weeks of consistent use.
Lemon Balm – It is considered a calming herb. Especially when it is combined with other calming herbs like valerian and hops, it helps to reduce anxiety and promote sleep. It has a nice lemony scent. (Check out some other ideas on how to use this herb)
Passionflower – There are many species of passionflower, but certain species like Passiflora incarnata may treat insomnia. Its chemicals have calming and sleep inducing effects. It has citrusy notes and can tone down the bitterness of valerian when combined with it.
Lavender – It has a reputation of being a relaxing herb. It support the nervous system and may help to calm your nerves and relieve anxiety. You can make an infusion from fresh or dried flowers and it also helps with flavoring the tea.
Linden – It is commonly used as a natural sedative to combat anxiety and promote relaxation. You can use the flowes, leaves or bark to make an infusion.
I added Rose Petals and Lemongrass to improve the blend’s flavor and aroma. The result was a pleasant infusion with a slight lemony flavor and scent.
Herbal Tea Recipe
- 1 part Valerian
- 2 parts Lemon Balm
- 1 part Passionflower
- 1 part Lavender
- 1 part Linden
- 1 part Rose Petals
- 1 part Lemongrass
Mix well and store in an airtight container in a cool, dry place.

If you DO Enjoy Chamomile…
After writing this post I got a night time herbal tea with chamomile and I was able to drink it and even enjoy it! The key ingredients to weaken that strong chamomile flavor were: hibiscus and rosehip.
– Another option for this recipe would be to use the 5 main herbs, add chamomile (1 part), rosehip (1 part) and hibiscus (1/2 part).
By all means, do play around and add chamomile if you love it, or remove a herb that you don’t like. Try to keep the first 5 ingredients the same but experiment to modify the flavor (just try not to add stimulating herbs like ginger, turmeric, etc.).

Do you drink a night time herbal tea? What’s in it? Let me know in the comments if you have another recipe, or if you tried it and liked it!


I’d love to make my own blend. Yours sounds delicious!!! That’s so funny how we were made to drink chamomile tea as kids and we both don’t like it as adults haha
I think it’s a cultural thing. In south america tea is given to people when they’re sick, so we create these negative associations. I definitely think things are changing though.
I love your blog, so many ideas and recipes!!
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It’s great to hear you liked your chamomile tea! I love chamomile with my nightly sleep blend. I also like to add lemon balm, lavender and catnip too to help me drift off.
You’ve given me some lovely tips on how to disguise certain strong flavours especially for valerian. Great relaxing read!
Hi Theresa,
Nothing makes me sleep better than lemon balm! Valerian is great too but as you said it’s too strong, so this blend combines more powerful sleeping aid herbs with others that promote relaxation and improve flavor. Hope you like it!
I would love to learn about blending with flowers as I do enjoy a cup of floral tea
It’s a lot of experimenting!! You can give it a go and try different things. I definitely encourage you to play around and discover!
Very impressive beautiful herbal blend thank you so much for sharing your chamomile alternative. You executed that!! I’ll be getting some valerian and linden!
I personally have a deep place in my heart for skull cap. It is in the mint family and one of the most powerful stress blocking and relieving herbs period and also safe for pregnant and nursing mom’s. With me running behind my toddler, it’s a must in any mom’s cabinet! It is native to the Pacific Northwest, Washington state. The native tribes used it traditionally here where Im from. It is wonderful any time of day and is a saint in the night hour. I do love chamomile lavender together and a huge peppermint fan. That peppermint really relaxes my muscles and puts me out. When I need sleep I use those 4 herbs and I brew/simmer for at least an hour or 2 before drinking. I use about 4 teabags worth of skullcap in my full kettle. And I can literally kill a whole kettle full of tea before bed hahahha. Traditional medicines brand sells it as Stress Ease blend. Kava is wonderful also. Thanks again. For the love of tea❤️❤️❤️
Hi Ebony, Valerian is great for relaxation, the issue with it is its smell as it is very strong so you need to blend it well. Kava is one of my favorites for this too. I do have skull cap too and I’ll try it to create another sleep time blend, thanks! And yes, it’s ideal to steep herbs for a long time since it allows for better extraction.
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